You deserve a

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sexually secure

relationship.

But here's the hard truth: when the honeymoon phase ends, the frequency of sex drops considerably (some say by almost half!) and it doesn't stop there - as the years go by, it's all too easy to get stuck in a rut and lose the spark that once ignited your romance. You just kind of… settle. And not in a good way.

If you are…
  • In need of some tools to stay intimately on track with each other
  • Finding that connecting emotionally and physically is harder than it used to be
  • Doubting that you can even come back from the missed opportunities and obvious lack of sexual connection

You are not alone. Truly, hitting a sexual slump or finding yourself in a sexless marriage or relationship can be all too common.

once fiery sex life was bound to

fizzle out.

When you first fell head over heels,

you probably never imagined that your

What if reigniting the passionate spark in your relationship was possible?

Let’s work together to make it happen!

Are you ready to break free from the dreaded sexual slump and build an emotionally fulfilling sex life with your partner? It might feel impossible, but trust me, it's within your reach.

Can you imagine a life without hurt and resentment? Where you and your partner communicate openly, empathize with each other's needs, and engage with each other from a rock-solid foundation of love and connection?

Whether you’re wanting to build a spectacular sex life from the ground up or you’re needing to rekindle an old flame, you deserve (and can most definitely achieve) the sexual and emotional connection you are craving with your partner.

01.

Commitment Counseling

Ready to build a passionate and loving relationship from the ground up? I can help with that!

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02.

Relational Sex Therapy

Do you feel like your partner has become your roommate and the spark is gone? Let's get you back on track!

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03.

Individual Sex Therapy

Are you on the path of sexual self-discovery? We could be a good fit together! 

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I’m Alana, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Sex Therapist. My passion is helping you rekindle your passion for each other, and I am determined to prove that long-term relationships can have a lifetime of spectacular sex!

I may have started out as a sex nerd who happened to do couple’s therapy, but working with relationships and highly motivated individuals on their sexual and emotional connection turned out to be my calling.

So in 2015 I started my solo private practice, Portland Sex Therapy. I’m now regularly helping partners and individuals, just like you, on their journey to a stronger partnership, a more secure and fulfilling sex life, and finding their true sexual selves. I’ve made it my mission to help folks find their way back to one another (and the bedroom).

If you need help establishing a foundation for sex and intimacy...


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Losing the passion and excitement in a long-term relationship is NOT a foregone conclusion!

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