Alana Ogilvie

COUPLES & sex Therapist

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Counseling for couples looking to rebuild emotional and physical intimacy.

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lasting connection

Unfortunately, after communication and conflict resolution, the lack of physical and emotional connection between long-term partners is an all too common concern. When the honeymoon phase ends, the frequency of sex drops considerably for most couples (some say by almost half!). As the years go by, it can be all too easy to get stuck in a rut and lose the spark that once ignited your romance. You just kind of… settle. And not in a good way.

If you are..
  • In need of some tools to stay intimately on track with each other
  • Finding that connecting emotionally and physically is harder than it used to be
  • Doubting that you can even come back from the missed opportunities and obvious lack of sexual connection

You are not alone. Truly, hitting a sexual slump or finding yourself in a sexless marriage or relationship can be all too common.

Do you feel like your partner has become

your roommate and the spark is 

What if reigniting the passionate spark in your relationship was possible?

Let’s work together to make it happen!

If you’re ready to break free from the slump and build an emotionally fulfilling sex life with your partner, I can help.

Whether you’re wanting to build a spectacular sex life from the ground up or you’re needing to rekindle a struggling flame, you deserve (and can most definitely achieve) the sexual and emotional connection you are craving with your partner.


Premarital Counseling

Ready to build a passionate and loving relationship from the ground up? I can help with that!

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Relational Sex Therapy

Are you longing for more emotional security and physical passion in your relationship? Let's get you back on track!

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Individual Sex Therapy

Are you on the path of sexual self-discovery? We could be a good fit together! 

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Portland Therapy Center Member

“I had the privilege of training with Alana, and have witnessed first hand how much she cares about her clients and her work. She is a wonderful and compassionate therapist and I highly recommend her.”

Theresa Herring, MS, LMFT

“Alana has a fantastic professional attitude, while being easy to relate to. She has an amazing ability to connect with others, even if only just meeting them. She has always been a joy to work with.”

Samantha Pelkey-Flock, LPC

hey there!

I’m Alana, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Sex Therapist. My passion is helping you rekindle your passion for each other, and I am determined to prove that long-term relationships can have a lifetime of spectacular sex!

I may have started out as a sex nerd who happened to do couple’s therapy, but working with relationships and highly motivated individuals on their sexual and emotional connection turned out to be my calling.

So in 2015 I started my solo private practice, Portland Sex Therapy. I’m now regularly helping partnerships, just like yours, on their journey to a stronger connection, a more secure and fulfilling sex life, and finding their true sexual selves. I’ve made it my mission to help folks find their way back to one another (and the bedroom).

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If you need help establishing the right foundation for sex and intimacy, I would be honored to guide you on the journey to lasting emotional and physical connection.

When you work with me, you'll experience...

More emotional connection

More physical connection

Greater relationship satisfaction

Less relational conflict

Let’s build the

Let's get started!


your relationship deserves, together.

lasting connection

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Losing the passion and excitement in a long-term relationship is NOT a foregone conclusion!

Download my guide today to learn about the stages that lead relationships to less sexual and emotional connection and what you can do when the slump starts happening to you.

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The 3 Stages of the Sexual Slump


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