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sexually secure

relationship.

In the early days, you couldn’t get enough of one another. Always together, always craving to be near each other, it felt like that feeling could go on forever. But it didn’t. One day you realized that things had settled between you. You settled into your life together, settled back into old habits… even your desire for intimacy settled.

  • Maybe sex has taken a slight dip and you want to know how to stay on track with each other.
  • Maybe you’re finding that connecting through physical intimacy is much harder than it used to be.
  • Maybe the repeated, missed opportunities have been going on so long, you’re not even sure sex can (or should) be a part of your relationship anymore.

would change in your relationship...

sex & intimacy

When you became a couple you didn't

realize how much

No matter your circumstances, I know a sexually secure relationship is possible for you. Whether you are wanting to build a spectacular sex life from the ground up or you’re facing a long journey back to one another, you deserve (and can most definitely achieve) the sexual connection you are craving with your partner.

Think of it- a relationship free from hurt, resentment and the dreaded “sexual slump.” A relationship where connection, be it emotional or physical, is easy and fulfilling for both of you. Where communication, empathy and understanding lead the way to the solid foundation you remember starting out with.

Imagine if you could revive this part of your relationship; if you could connect with one another with a sense of joy and enthusiasm.

01.

Commitment Counseling

Ready to build a passionate and loving relationship from the ground up? I can help with that!

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02.

Relational Sex Therapy

Do you feel like your partner has become your roommate and the spark is gone? Let's get you back on track!

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03.

Individual Sex Therapy

Are you on the path of sexual self-discovery? We could be a good fit together! 

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HERE'S HOW I CAN HELP

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hey there!

I’m Alana, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Sex Therapist. I work with partners and individuals, just like you, on their journey to a stronger marriage or relationship, a more fulfilling sex life, and finding their true sexual selves.

My true passion turned out to be working with relationships and highly motivated individuals on their sexual health, wellness and identity. So in 2015 I started my solo private practice, Portland Sex Therapy, to serve my ideal clients- couples and relationships who need a little help finding their way back to one another (and the bedroom).

About me

she/her/hers

I know how to safeguard your relationship from the sexual slump.

When you work with me, you'll experience...

More emotional connection

More physical connection

Greater relationship satisfaction

Less relational conflict

At the end of the day, you deserve a

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SO What are you waiting for?

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Losing the passion and excitement in a long-term relationship is NOT a foregone conclusion!

Download my guide today to learn about the stages that lead relationships to less sexual and emotional connection and what you can do to prevent the slump from happening to you.

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The 3 Stages of the Sexual Slump

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