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A Mother-Daughter Podcast
Join Judy Oliver, LMHC and Alana Ogilvie, LMFT, CST, a mother/daughter therapist team who are on a mission to make sex, pleasure, intimacy and relationships easier to navigate.
From questions about the mechanics of sex to the dreaded “am I normal?” they are on a mission to help parents and partners have better informed conversations about sex and connection. So, get ready, because it’s about time we had “the talk.”
Book Recommendations
BOOKS THAT COVER SEX & RELATIONSHIPS
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Desire & Eroticism
Better Sex Through Mindfulness
Dr. Brotto’s book offers a revolutionary approach to improving desire, arousal, and satisfaction inside―and outside of―the bedroom!
Come as You Are
Drawing on years of research on women's sexual pleasure, Come As You Are can provide everyone with a new understanding of pleasure-oriented sexuality.
Mating in Captivity
Explore the paradoxical union of domesticity and sexual desire in this book, and discover how long-term relationships can maintain the spark for years to come.
Long-Term Relationships
Seven Principles of Making Marriage Work
This book teaches partners new approaches for resolving conflicts, creating new common ground, and achieving greater levels of intimacy.
Us by Terry Real
Us is a groundbreaking guide to a new science-backed skillset; one that will allow you to get past your knee-jerk reactions and tap into your wiser, more collaborative self.
Passionate Marriage
In his book, Dr. Schnarch shows that keeping intimacy and passion alive requires facing the anxiety of defining yourself while getting closer to your partner.
Polyamory and Opening Up
Polysecure
Attachment theory has a lot to say about what makes romantic relationships good. But what if you’re interested in more than just one partnership? Jessica Fern’s book explores that.
The Ethical Slut
The Ethical Slut is essential reading for the curious and the expert alike; tackling issues such as emotional honesty, safer sex, good communication, and more.
Opening Up
Drawing from the lived experiences of others, and using her own unique voice, Tristan Taormino discusses how you can create lasting and fulfilling open relationships in this book
Sexual Difficulties
Coping with Erectile Dysfunction
Using a comprehensive, holistic approach their book offers a proven program for regaining erectile function and a positive sex life,
Organizations
ORGANIZATIONS I OFTEN RECOMMEND
general resources
provides training, community and visibility to promote the understanding of human sexuality and healthy sexual behavior.
simplifying out-of-network insurance reimbursement for practitioners and patients!
INTIMACY & PLEASURE
Online resources for sexual pleasure, erotic touch and compassionate relationships.
Woman-owned sex toy boutique in Portland, OR. Where sexual empowerment is for every body!
The one-of-a-kind platform for taking your sexual health and wellness into your own hands.
The honest, practical resource for exploring women’s pleasure. For women, men and couples, together or solo.
LGBTQIA2S+
Largest LGBTQ+ Community Center in the PNW. Serving the communities of Portland Metro and SW Washington
Serving children (age 5+), adolescents, adults, and families who identify as transgender, non-binary, gender non-conforming, and gender creative.
Community health organization focused on enriching the health of the trans, queer, gender diverse & intersex community.
National Sexual Assault Hotline - 1-800-656-4673
Organization providing information and tools to prevent and respond to sexual violence.
Educational content, legal resources and support for survivors of sexual assault and abuse
sexual trauma
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Losing the passion in your relationship is not a foregone conclusion! Learn about the stages that lead relationships to less sexual and emotional connection and what you can do to get back on track.
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